Friday 31 August 2012

Thank goodness for pictures

I just spent the last couple of hours (of course it takes longer than it should because I'm interrupted a ton) sorting through our last Costco run of pictures, dating them and putting them in the childrens' books.  I'm a little crazy about their photo albums.  When we had Jayna, it was pretty simple, I would print pictures and every picture with her would go in her album and if I had a picture that didn't have her in it, there was another general photo album for that.  While now with the twins, I have chosen to have an album for every child.  If Jayna and Davin are in a picture, then I print it twice and put it in both of their books, if all three are in it, then it's printed three times.  I think you get the point.

Throughout this process, I have noticed a few things.  One is that we still take a lot of pictures, but not as many as when we just had Jayna.  The twins are not lacking for photos, but it was so much easier to whip out the camera and photograph Jayna when I didn't have three kids to watch out for.  Also, we used to print pictures monthly after Jayna was born and now we wait until Costco has their prints on sale for cheap and we print 100-200 at a time.

The other things is that I'm so thankful that we take the pictures that we do.  I don't have a lot of pictures of me growing up, but our kids will have a lot of great memories to look back on.  Who are we kidding?  It's mostly for me.  I remember putting Jayna's pictures in her album when she was 2 months old.  When I would do this, I'd always look at the book from the beginning.  At this point I looked at the first pictures and realized that if we hadn't taken pictures, I would have already forgotten what she looked like when she was born.  I feel this way with the twin's newborn photo shoot with Robin.  Every time I look at them, I tell Derrick how I don't regret a penny we spent on them.  They are precious and we never would have been able to capture what Robin did.  We are also waiting on pictures we had done a few weeks ago and I will post some of those once we have them.  Here's the first picture we took of Mara and Davin and then a more recent one.



With the new school year beginning, it's been making me think about how much things have changed over the last 9 months.  9 months ago I was still freaking out about having twins and fearing the unknown.  Now, we have settled in and are enjoying watching all three of our turkeys grow.  With two kids crawling, it makes for interesting times and their personalities are showing through more and more.  Today, Mara and Davin have been playing together a lot and it's been very cute.  I'm pretty sure Mara's the leader and trouble maker and Davin will follow and be the sneaky one.  Everyday, the twins are getting closer and closer to pulling themselves up and the dynamics between Jayna and the twins is always changing, but for the most part, she's amazing with them.  There is no doubt she loves them a lot, but sometimes they get between her and her toys.  Watching one child discover the world at this age is amazing, but watching two do it at the same time is even more impressive, even if that includes one of them choking on a penny and a nickle already (thanks for the heart attacks Mara).  Oh yeah, when you only have one little one, you don't get to watch them wrestle.  Davin has got some awesome wrestling moves and we don't even watch WWE.  They should have napped longer today and I was annoyed, but now they are playing so nicely, I can't even be mad.

The school year starting also makes me think about my life returning to "normal".  My first day back to work is November 5th.  I will have been off for 13 months already and I can't wait to go back.  I know things are going to be hectic, but at least I will get a break from my children.  I can't wait to return to my job that I love and the people that I love working with.  I miss laughing really hard while at work every day.  This working mom is ready to return to work!  

Tuesday 28 August 2012

A new kind of crazy

I remember the craziness of having a 21 month old as well as brand new twins like it was yesterday.  People keep saying to me that I must have my hands full and be busy.  I would say that we have settled in as opposed to having settled down.  Things are still crazy and I'm sure they always will be, just in a different way.

Davin started crawling over the weekend so that means that all three children are officially on the move.  Mara is trying really hard to pull herself up on the couch and I'm sure she'll succeed soon.  This also means that we need to be lowering their cribs :(

I had Davin at a pre-op appointment last week and he's just under 24 pounds.  As you can well imagine, they are eating everything we put in front of them: Cheerios, Gold Fish crackers, chicken, pork chops, pork tenderloin, fruit, veggies, yogurt.....I think you get the idea.  I find that this stage is fun, but also a disaster.  The twins have been feeding themselves for about a month now and have mastered making a mess.  At first, Mara was a complete disaster, but it seems like now she's mastered the index finger and thumb pinching.  Davin tends to make a bigger mess now.  I am constantly sweeping the floor and washing it, although I'm still not doing it nearly as often as I should.  This morning I took them right from their booster seats to the stroller and went for a long walk.  This means that I didn't sweep the floor so when we came home two hours later, Davin and Mara went to town on the muffin and Cheerios they had managed to drop on the floor.  It's almost like we have a dog!  I know that the mess is a means to an end and they have to practice feeding themselves.  I know it will get better over time, but for now it drives me crazy.

Jayna is as crazy as ever.  She's so independent, which is great, but at the same time, she doesn't stop!!!!

I'll post some pictures and/or video soon (if I can get the video to download).  I hear my turkeys talking to each other in their room (a benefit of twins) and we have to pick up their big sis, who is always excited to see them.

Wednesday 15 August 2012

On The Move

No, I'm not talking about the daycare (for those of you I met through working there, you'll get it).

Mara is officially crawling and Davin is super close.  He is moving around, but gets his chubby foot stuck underneath him.  I feel bad because he works so hard to try to crawl, but it's just not working out for him yet.  We have also brought the baby gate back into action to close off the rest of the rest of the house from the living room/dining room.  It wasn't so bad when Jayna was a baby because we didn't have a toddler who wanted to roam the house freely.  She will adjust eventually.

There's a little music toy the kids play with and they have started dancing to music.  Davin sits like a chubby old man and kind of bounces up and down and Mara sits there and waves her hands in the air.  It makes me smile every time.

The twins are also eating up a storm.  I'm nervous about the daycare bills that will start in a few months, but what I'm more nervous about is once the daycare bills stop, is that the three kids will eat us out of house and home.  The whole eating more food and feeding themselves just means a bigger mess as well.  Jayna took it upon herself to share her hard boiled egg with Mara the other day (after she saw me feeding them one).  Needless to say there was a bunch of cleanup after that.

I weighed the twins yesterday and Mara weighs 20 lbs 12 oz and Davin was 23 lbs 2 oz.  Such little chubbers.  Mara is definitely rockin the 18 month clothing and Davin can wear some 24 month clothing even.  Soon they'll be wearing the same size as Jayna and she's no shorty.  We have discovered that we will be putting size 4 jeans on her Christmas list since we've had a couple pairs on her recently and the 3s are not very big.

People would probably be looking at us funny if we had tiny children, with Derrick being 6'4" and myself 6'2".

Mara and Davin are interacting with each other more and more.  At my parents' on Sunday, they were squealing back and forth to each other.  Yesterday morning, it was fart noises.  Even though it's a lot more difficult with two babies, but it's also a lot more fun!

Here's an annoying twin comment I've heard a lot lately.  "Oh, their eyes are different colours."  I just nod and say yes (Mara's are hazel and Davin's are very blue, like Jayna's), but what I want to say is.....they have different genitals, of course they can have different eye colours.

We got pictures done last week, so I'm hoping to have some great pics posted soon.  I thought that it could be a total disaster with three little ones, but it actually went pretty smoothly.

I'm off to get some work done on this rainy day.  

Thursday 2 August 2012

New phase

We have entered the new phase of moving.  The twins are by no means crawling, but they get to whatever toy they want or whatever item they shouldn't be playing with.  I have been dreading this moment for a while now.  People would always ask if they were crawling, and I would respond that I'm okay if they are late movers.  The longer they stay still, the easier it is for us!!!!

I love watching them discover things and interact with each other.  There is something new every day and it always makes me smile.  On the other hand, it means that I have to be on my toes as to what is on the floor and what they can get at.  We haven't worried about little pieces of food on the floor for a long time now, but now I have to be more diligent with the whole housekeeping thing (which is something that I feel I'm drowning in).  The twins feed themselves some foods, which means there is a huge mess that needs to be swept up regularly.  We also need to make sure that Jayna isn't leaving money (she's really into having change on her) on the floor.  We have been spending more time downstairs, so that we can watch the Olympics, which means the carpet needs to be vacuumed as well.

This morning, I thought Davin was about to puke, but realized he had something in his mouth.  Upon taking the item out, I noticed it was a little cardboard tag from one of Jayna's toys.  He hadn't been playing with it for a while, so that had been in there a while.  Oops!

The twins had a bath together for the first time ever last week and it was a huge success.  Moments like that make all the difficulties worth it.

We are looking forward to a busy, but fantastic long weekend spending time with family and friends outside!!!